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We returned
to the home and talked to both, Myriam and Humprey. However
Myriam shouted at us. How could we accused them of stealing?
It was giving to them by Marieke they said, one of the girls
who lived for a while in one of the bungalows. And the clothes
were giving to them by volunteers. It was unbelievable to hear
these people lying. Humprey more then 2 years working with us.
His wife enjoyed us in October 2005. They had a good salary,
and did benefit from the home in many ways. Why stealing from
these children? We have done investigations and found out that
for some months or longer, they have packed bags, suitcases
full of clothes and shoes and took them away. We dont know yet
what happened, sold them? gave them away? We have fired
them the same day. Humprey did sent me very bad sms to make me
feel guilty, to try to make me feel bad. Iam used on that. It
happened every time when I fired an employee that that person
wanted to take revenge. It is sad but the truth. They rather
misused the name of God, they rather point the finger at me
then looking to the truth, the facts, their own shortcomings.
We finally
reported them to the police. two days before we left, police
escorted Wiliam to the house of Myriam and Humprey were they
were ordered to hand over all the goods they still had.
Unfortunatly they had removed already most of the stolen
items. They also kept money, donations from visitors for the
home and we still try to figure out how much that is. We have
decided not to make it a court issue cause in that case we
have to testify and could not return home.
Lydia, who
lived with us for more then a year and got a a small salary,
education and was given clothes etc. was now the only
one left in the home who knew how the things were going on in
the home. William and me needed to go to Nairobi and asked her
to stay with the children and the volunteers till our return.
She refused somehow to talk to us after yriam and Humprey
left. The following day she told us that she had decided to
move away from the home to live independent. She is now 23
years and with her education and some savings she could start
her own business. We praised her for that decision, and
promised to support her when ever possible. She agreed to stay
to assist the volunteers till our return. William and me left
then with a burden on our shoulders to Nairobi, but with the
knowledge that Lydia will be there we were a bit released.
When we were in Nairobi the following day after a very long
trip by mini safari bus, we got a sms from the home. In
the early morning when everybody was still asleep Lydia left
by taxi at 4.30. She sneaked out of the house, not to wake up
anyone. This was very bad and sad news. Not to say kwa heri,
goodbye to the children. And to leave us alone when we needed
her. After all we had done for her she has let us down in a
very selfish way. Again we were confronted with a bad
experience. We could not stay long time in Nairobi but had to
return to Mombasa.
We
returned by plane to Mombasa, William, me and the children.
Steven our cook was going to travel by bus. He would arrive
the following day. So we returned back to "Melrose Place
"where it was not like before either. There was another family
with children and the 5 years old girl was not coming
along with my son. Well they played together but the girl
liked to scream for each and everything. So the people around
started to complain as well about the noises so we were not
really relaxed. With each scream I run outside to calm down
the children... it felt like at home.... With the problems in
the orphanage it was all not really a holiday as we planned.
The volunteers who tried and mostly succeeded to manage it
without staf were a good support to us. It was not always easy
for them but definetly not for us cause we had a lot of things
in our mind. I was also very busy with the Tourism business
and worked evry day for some hours in the internet. We had
many clients being on safari so I might say that I was fully
stressed most days. We could not enjoy our
holiday which we needed so badly. After more then a year to be
together again in Kenya, not for a funeral which we had like 4
times within 2 years, but for enjoying our holiday. It was not
like that at all.
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